Let's go beneath the surface
I'm Jordan and SubCurrent is my intimacy coaching studio. Using the body as a guide, I help clients go beneath the surface noise and identify what they need but don't yet experience in relationship. I'm motivated by the question:
What if seeking pleasure were a practice for more self-understanding, stronger relationships, and greater fulfillment across all aspects of life?
It can be challenging to be totally honest and clear about what we want. Sometimes we don't even know until we experience it. Our upbringings and social messaging often work to keep desire shuttered, but accessing pleasure is transformative work.
As a Somatica™-trained sex and relationship coach, we get in touch with the first person truth of what truly feels good. Many of us are taught to distance ourselves from our bodies, but my practice leans into noticing the embodied truth of sensation and feeling. I believe giving our bodies what they want is transformative work.
Together, we'll find gaps where desire, confidence, and communication fall short and practice strategies for getting more of the intimacy that you want.
“The safety I feel working with Jordan allows me to open up and drop into a place I don’t often allow myself to go.”
– jeanie (she/her)
We might be a good fit
I welcome anyone who comes to the work with curiosity and a desire for more intimacy and pleasure in their life. We may be an especially good fit if you want to:
– Express your erotic self
It can be hard to express our desires confidently. This can be especially true of compassionate, empathetic people who feel like their sexuality hasn't had a safe or welcome place to land in the world. Whether you’re dating, open, or partnered, we can work on conveying your passion without shame or fear of being too much.
– Explore kink & BDSM
Whether you’re starting from pure vanilla, recovering from a kinky escapade gone wrong, or stretching into spicy new territory, I offer a grounded, consent-led entry point to non-normative forms of pleasure. Structured guidance and boundaried practice are great ways to explore your range of desires.
Many people report this type of play having ripple effects in other parts of their lives. It requires intimately understanding boundaries, consent, and safety practices while learning to radically accept whatever comes up for you and your partners. Explore what it means to play with power and sensation, learn technique, and articulate exactly what you need in a judgment-free environment where the goal is to improve skills while enjoying the process.
– Build comfort around men
If you feel unease around masculine energy because of trauma, culture, religion, or patriarchy, I offer the opportunity to experience safe male presence, with specific and highly attuned focus on consent and pacing.
– Get more out of dating
Dating is hard: the time, apps, emotions of pining, image management….yikes! I can help you identify what's important and enjoyable about the dating landscape and develop strategies to help you feel more confidence expressing what you want.